Why would a man be interested in an ordinary woman while there are very beautiful and fabulous women?

Attitude and intelligence go hand in hand with physical looks. But guess what… and by the way, every person has their own subjective opinion regarding what they find attractive. If she’s an unhappy person, I generally won’t want to be around her. An attractive lady to me is someone with pretty skin, a nice smile, and kind eyes. She’s a happy person who treats people with respect (this word is more important than people think). She’s affectionate and willing to work on certain things just like I am. This stubbornness that people have to never change and make me bend to their will is not attractive to me. A women that accepts you as you are and treats you well should not be taken for granted.

First of all, beauty and attractiveness is subjective. But attitude has a lot to do with this. A beautiful woman can be unattractive to me if she is snobby and self-righteous. If we go out to eat and she treats the waiting staff like crap, I’m done, regardless of how physically attractive she is. How smart a woman is and how easy she is to talk to adds to her attractiveness. I’ve dated quite a few women in my 44 years on this rotating sphere. This includes almost ethnicity in America, not to mention women from other countries (there was this sweet Brazilian girl I met in college).

There was another very pretty girl who I really liked. But I hated the way she treated some people. She talked to staff at restaurants like they were beneath her. She would snap her fingers at staff and yell at department store workers for not moving as fast as she liked. It was embarrassing. Overall, this completely took away from her attractiveness.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

I broke up with one girl and all my friends thought I was nuts for doing so. She was this hot, classy, sweet Mexican gal who I had a crush on for quite a while. Why did I break up with her? She couldn’t kiss worth a damn and she had a small hygiene issue downstairs if you catch my drift. I seriously thought my head was going to be swallowed when I made out with her. As beautiful as she was, I was not turned on by kissing her.